I would have to look back to figure out my last blog post, probably 2 weeks ago.
Life is keeping us busy and the snow is finally receding so we can start getting projects lined up at the cabin. It was in the 60's this weekend and last, perfect weather for running and hiking and doing chores. Unfortunately nothing much could be done outside as there was several feet of snow (and plenty of mud) everywhere but the road.
Father in-law drove with me to the cabin. I'm very attentive when he is around, he doesn't understand that it's ok to take your time when doing tasks. Simple tasks like getting out of a chair isn't easy for him, but once he stands up he just starts to move before he has his balance. I'm worried he is going to trip over something and get really hurt or worse. His dog loves to be in the kitchen, and doesn't like me shooing her out... I just see that as a disaster happening, especially considering he cooks food for her. It's just whatever meat happens to be in the fridge so we are going to try her on canned dog food so he doesn't need to worry about cooking just for the dog.
I love dogs, but unless it's necessary, we aren't cooking for Rock. I made sure Father in-law ate good, he doesn't eat much anymore. I kept trying to make him drink water but he just won't do it. Coffee, root beer, orange juice... I think his oxygen levels would improve if his blood wasn't moving like sludge. But what do I know, he's in the mid 80's and there is only so much he wants to be asked/told.
I received a promotion at work and while it didn't come with more money, it comes with about 40% more stuff to do. The more I can learn and do, the better off we will be in the future if a job change happens. The owner wants to sell in about 8 years and whomever buys the business won't keep management, even if we do a great job, they always want to start fresh and do it their way. Who cares if the way it's being done currently has us ranked #1 in the world and growing 18-25% per year.
With that promotion, we were invited to the Garth Brooks and I reluctantly accepted. It was political, and I hate politics. We went and actually had a blast, but I was very reserved in my conversation. I don't like to give out 'secrets' and everyone wants to know how/why/what. We just had a good time instead. More politics to come but I'll play the game to help secure the future. It shouldn't be that way, but I have to be smart about it. The concert was great, our seats were box seats with food. Not bad.
I was having a discussion with my Brothers Daughter on Facebook about vaccinations. After a few small conversations she basically said it should be illegal not to vaccinate children. I reminded her that any law always has the threat of violence, at the point of a gun behind the law. Anytime you want a law passed you have to realize what you are actually asking to be done to those who don't conform and break the law. Speeding tickets can lead to warrants that lead to LEO knocking on your door and if you don't comply you will be forced at gunpoint to comply. Critical thinking, do your own research and don't just do what the doctor says or what everyone else does. Then you can make an informed decision.
She said that only happens if you are a nut job waiving your gun around. Fear mongering is what she called it, created by bored housewives and Republicans.
That was the end of that conversation, by my choosing, and I'll never see anything she says or posts again. Easy enough. When critical thinking abandons someone so fast, to the point they think something is caused by X political party, there is no reasoning.
I would rather go hike or run, and that's what we did, 17 miles this weekend.
I am sorry for you and anyone with a liberal relative. Condolences.
ReplyDeleteR, D, L, I, whatever the letter designation unless the average person wakes up we will continue with the same. Unfortunately only a few of us can see the results and what that means for the future.
DeleteI cook for my dogs sometimes. Just depends on what I'm making for myself. If I cook up a roast or whatever, and there's lots of grease, I mix it into their food and heat it all up. Or if I have lots of scraps I might make them something special to utilize the scrapes.
ReplyDeleteIt's supposed to snow here this weekend. Obnoxious mother nature! It's been wet but warm this past two weeks and I thought the snow was over. Fortunately, not supposed to "stick."
The snow is certainly not over. I might have a nice sunburn/tan but I know it's going to be snowing again soon. Sure, it won't stick, but it's going to be a mess anyhow.
DeleteWe cooked for one of our dogs when he had cancer, but when there isn't a need and it's going to get someone killed, it's time for canned food.
Frightening that a person doesn't have the ability to think through both sides of an issue. Be it current bosses, potential future bosses or family. It's hard, but life changes and we must think and adapt.
ReplyDeleteGlad you got a good run in.
Completely agree, change with the times, learn what/where you can.
DeleteCritical thinking is a lost are I guess. I don't even want to change an opinion or someones mind, I just want them to educate themselves so they make a rational educated decision. I'm a dreamer.
I'm with you on not dealing with people who don't think and consider another way. That being said I have unfriended or stop talking to a few and hear crap about it from others but I stand by my decisions.
ReplyDeleteI miss good old debates and discussions. Communication, the lost art!
Delete